Surrounded by her family at Westmount Gardens, on January 16, 2023, at the age of 64. Brenda entered the gates of Heaven after a long and courageous battle with Lewy Body Dementia and Heart disease. Beloved wife of Richard for over 47 years. Cherished mother of Melissa LaForme, Kyley Vandelaar, and Jordan LaForme. Loving and adored Nanny of Lily, Lauren, and Lucas. Missed by the LaForme family, the Tryon family and many close friends. Special thanks to the staff at Westmount Gardens for their compassionate care of Brenda, and the support to her family.
Brenda was a dedicated mother first and foremost. She treasured her children and embraced every moment with them. She especially loved her role as Nanny, and as a dog-mom too. Brenda had a vivacious personality and incredible sense of humour. She made friends everywhere she went and had the ability to talk to anyone as if she had known them for years. Many will fondly remember Brenda’s love of sending handwritten cards. She was extraordinarily generous and had a heart for the disadvantaged. Her unwavering faith in the Lord is her greatest legacy. Despite her own struggles, she was an encourager to everyone around her. Brenda was not afraid to share her faith in the Lord and her hope in Heaven.
In keeping with Brenda’s wishes, cremation has taken place and there will be a private family celebration of life. If you wish to make a donation in Brenda’s honour, please consider an organization close to her heart, Teen Challenge Canada.
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Jake and Ali Tryon says
Rick, Kyley, Melissa, Jordan, Lily, Lauren, and Lucas
We are so sorry to hear about Brenda passing. She was such a kind and thoughtful woman. Our hearts are saddened that she didn’t get to meet Maximillian. We will remember her as a loving aunt.
Grace &Grant Parker says
Rick,Melissa,Kyley,Jordan and “The Littles”.
We are so sad to hear of your great loss. Brenda was an amazing person,loved you all with ALL her heart,loved her Lord and was a faithful servant, she was generous,funny,kind and caring and a great friend.
You will miss her but you have the comfort of knowing she is in Heaven with Jesus.
Sending love,hugs and praying for you.
Love. Grant & Grace
Janice Trudgeon says
Rick, Melissa, Kyley and Jordan, We were saddened to hear of the passing of Brenda. Wife, mother, grandmother and friend to many. She had a way of lifting and encouraging people with her hearty laugh and great sense of humour and the warm hugs she would give. She loved people with the love of the Lord and she will be missed! Our deepest sympathy to all the family and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jan and Wayne Bentley says
Kyley, Melissa, Jordan. We are so shocked and sorry for the loss of your precious Mom. She was definately a gift to this world. A terrific sense of humor. She leaves us all with lots of great memories. I pray for you the Lord will fill this larger in each of your lives. I do not know Rick’s situation, but a huge loss for him. ❤️
Lisa Wolfs says
Kyley and Family…I am so saddened to hear about the loss of your Mom. I remember her as a kind, funny, loving and generous woman. Above that, I remember the steadfast love she had for the Lord. May she rest in the peace and the glory of His presence.
Jane Van Bilsen says
Kyley and family..I am so very sorry for your loss. Your mom sounded like an amazing lady with incredible spirit. My sincere condolences to you and your entire family